Do you know how to turn a lover into love? Would you like to take your relationship to the next level? Would you like to turn a flirtation into a lasting love story? It’s easier than you think if you do these three things that will turn your crush into love.
Subtlety Let him know you are interested
You may be having a crush on some guy, but you and he don’t know how to take it any further. Guys are just as afraid of being rejected as women. That is why some of them hesitate to take the next step in making an appointment.
However, if you let him know that you are open to a deeper relationship by giving him subtle hints, he will have no reason to be afraid to ask you out.
Talk casually about a movie that is opening and mention that you want to see it. Tell him about a great club you’ve heard of that you’d like to check out. Remind him of an upcoming sporting event that you are both interested in.
Remember, you don’t want to ask him out. You just want to give him a chance whereby he can ask you out on a date without fear of rejection.
Show that you like: everything with warts
None of us are perfect and men can be as critical of themselves as women. Act as if you find her minor flaws endearing. Share some of your personal flaws so that he realizes that you are not alone and that you are just as imperfect as he is. Accept your blemishes and his and let him know that you like him, warts and all. Make light of your shortcomings and explore how you can help each other turn bad habits or behaviors into positive assets. And by doing this together in a joyful way, you can quickly take the feelings of a person you like and turn them into love.
Don’t run to the bedroom
It’s easy to be tempted to up the ante on your relationship by sleeping together, but that only puts pressure on the two of you that you don’t need if you want the person you like to turn into love. By sleeping together too quickly, instead of your crush turning into love, it can easily turn into lust. And early lust is not automatically a stepping stone to love. Develop your common interests. Enjoy shared experiences. Become her friend before you become her lover. Anticipation is a great aphrodisiac that can help you get to know each other better and develop deeper feelings. This way, when you finally have sex, it will be more meaningful. As anyone can tell you, great sex, even great sex, is always better when you have it with someone you love.
With a little patience, time, love, and sharing, you can easily turn someone you like into love.