Do you find yourself longing for your ex? Do you feel like your feet have been cut off from under you because you miss being with him so much? Do you feel blue and lonely being single again, unintentionally? Well, this article is for all the ladies out there who are yearning to get their ex boyfriend back.

First of all, don’t chase him, whatever you do. Men are supposed to be the hunters. It is not a cliché, this is how nature has worked for millennia. When you go after it, it actually makes you much less attractive and your scarcity factor plummets and, like goods, things that are so freely available lose their appeal. What you need to learn how to do is seduce him with your female lure that has nothing to do with the chase.

So based on this basic makeup, she needs to chase you. That’s what men do. Men hunt, women give green -or red- light. Men make the first move, women respond.

And when you have that etched in your mind, you can now start by reviewing what brought you together in the first place. What was it that he saw in you that made him go crazy? Take a very honest assessment of yourself. Have you gained a few kilos, have you done something stupid with your hair or have you changed the way you dress? All of these things could have an impact on how he sees you.

You probably missed out when you became a couple: You probably gave up some hobbies, friends, or activities. In short, you changed. You became too involved with him and your identity became entangled in your relationship with him. You stopped being the girl he initially dated and fell in love with. He may have become bored, disillusioned, or turned off with the new you and the you that you became for him. One way to get it back may be to simply reboot the old self to turn it on again, and improve on that. And then don’t change again this time.

Another thing that could have happened is that he liked you a lot without knowing you. In other words, he was in love with an idea of ​​yours. You were an enigma to him and it was very challenging for a boy. But, when you became a couple, he discovered things about you that he didn’t like very much. He maybe he found out about you swearing, gambling or being too jealous, or other things that he thinks are against what he thinks is appropriate for his girlfriend. He thinks about the things he insisted on you for. If you really want your ex back, consider making the changes he asked of you.

Once you have all the pieces in place, you are the girl he really wants and then you have to seduce him. But doing this is counterintuitive.

Remember, he likes the chase. So give him one! Go somewhere he goes often and barely recognizes him, but flirts outrageously with all the other guys. If any guy makes a move, make sure you get comfortable. Do you know that this is how Kate Middleton got her relationship back with Prince Williams? She was so successful in making herself look so desirable by having these big boys chasing after her. You can even start dating one of her friends so that she wants to chase you.

Once the hunter gets irritated, he will want to go after you. At that point, it’s up to you to keep him interested by being the girlfriend he really wants and fell in love with for the first time. That way you won’t be saying “I want my ex back again!”