“My boyfriend doesn’t call me every day, what does it mean?” That’s one of those old dating questions that women keep asking. Women and men approach dating from very different places. When a woman is crazy about her boyfriend, all she wants to do is talk to him. She will reach out to him at every opportunity. Unfortunately, most men are not connected in this way. Just because you would love to talk to him every day doesn’t necessarily mean he feels the same way. If you want me to call you more often than he does, it is possible. The key to doing that is how often you call.

If your boyfriend doesn’t call every day and you would like him to, there is one thing you need to do. You have to stop calling him as much as you have been. Women are known to be the ones who communicate the most. If your boyfriend says he’s going to call and then he doesn’t, chances are that in a few hours after he doesn’t call, you’ll come over to call him. We do this because not only do we want to connect with the man we adore, but we want to make sure he doesn’t lose interest or ignore us. Contrary to what it sounds like, when a guy doesn’t call as promised, it’s usually not because he’s ignoring you or putting you at the bottom of his priority list. Actually, it’s more than likely because he knows you’ll be calling him soon.

Men sometimes become complacent with certain aspects of their relationships. If he knows you’re hooked on him, he sees no reason to keep trying to impress you. If you think back to the early days of your relationship, he probably called you more. That’s because he was on your trail. He loved you and knew he had to work to get it. Now that he’s caught you, the dynamic has changed. If he stops calling, force his hand. He will have no choice but to start calling you again. Every time a woman backs up just one touch, a man will notice. So take the step of calling less if your goal is for him to call more.