Part of the appeal of giving women oral sex is in the sheer passion, intensity, and excitement of cunnilingus, along with the great intimacy it brings to your sexual relationship with your woman. There is also a sense of comfort and stress release in the act, which can be of great benefit to some guys.

Begin by massaging the mons pubis and the entire vulva with the palm of your hand so that it gets used to feeling you down there. After maybe a relaxed 5-10 minutes of this, get into position between her legs, perhaps lying down with your hands in front of you or placing your hands around her legs to reach the top of her vulva.

Start off by kissing the mound for a while with little butterfly kisses, then slowly transition down to kiss the entire outside of the vulva and then the inside of the lips. Then use a light, fairly flat tongue to make short, small licks over the entire area to moisten it.

Then use a pointed tongue and a side-to-side motion to open the inner lips and expose the vestibule on the inside. Now position your upper lip so that it makes contact with the fleshy area just above the clitoral hood (this is called the front corner). Press firmly and place your head at an angle of about 45 degrees from flush with the vulva, so that your nose is pressed against the mons pubis. Open your mouth wide and use a wide, flat tongue to lick very slowly from the bottom of the vestibule to the top where the clitoris is. Lick it ice cream cone style when you do this at first, making sure it takes about 10 seconds to get to the top. This long, slow lick will probably be the first to elicit a moan or some kind of movement from her, if you were careful to put her into sex before starting with an adequate amount of dirty words and male dominance, both of which are absolutely necessary for a result. successful.

Your next mission is to slowly increase your speed and experiment with a variety of tongue shapes and pressures and directions of movement to find the one you like. This will be different each time you do it, so you will need to search for it again each time. Finding this can take some time and maybe even several sessions, so be patient.

Once you have found it, repeat this movement. This is your “rhythm”. Absolutely keep it at all costs – KEEP DOING AND DON’T CHANGE IT. Then she will ride him to orgasm!

Watching her hips move and her body undulate more and more as she gets turned on and rides toward orgasm is a great excitement for us guys. The feeling of being so close to the most feminine part of her is very exciting, and the slippery wetness of her vulva and the softness of her inner lips against your lips is incredibly intimate. This will give you a feeling of “Oh, woman! I love you!” and what it does is create an energy and sexual passion that you can feel in your chest. Bring this passion to your lips by imagining it rising up your chest and entering your mouth and onto your lips and tongue, then express it with the oral pleasure that you are giving your woman without changing the rhythm. This adds intensity to what you are doing and she will feel it. This will allow her to indulge more in what you are doing and bring her that much closer to orgasm.

Then, as the first wave of passion subsides, continue to keep up as the next wave builds up inside you. Then once again bring it to your lips and let the electricity fly through your lips and take another intense lick, graduating to suck your lips into your mouth with your lips and let the experience envelop you. Keep doing this with each wave, which will rise inside you faster and faster, until you forget to count the waves and let the whole world disappear until all your mind can think of is your lips and their moisture, and her undulating body. She will dig her heels into your lower back, creating a wonderful comforting sensation and tremendous stress release for you.

Finally, when she reaches the brink of orgasm, stop, look at her and smile, then go straight back to the same rhythm, going crazy, licking everything she sees, in all directions. Her hands will grab the back of your head and pull you and you will feel the vaginal contractions as she is released in a thunderous orgasm and the whole world is swept away.

So don’t think that cunnilingus is just about her and that there is nothing for you. Feel confident and show your passion, and you will give yourself and her an experience that you will never forget!