My granddaughter had her first birthday last month and because of the great family that welcomed this first grandchild, first niece, and first great-grandchild; Well, you realize that she is the first, in the world, the celebration was great. When the day ended, there were more than 50 people present to sing Happy Birthday and watch the gift opening. The “party girl” handled everything wonderfully, but by the end of the day she was exhausted and ready for a quiet moment. Since the second birthday seems to be just around the corner, I thought researching the best baby party planning ideas might help. Here are five keys to ensuring a successful birthday party for a young child.

1.) How many people should you invite? This is difficult when you have a large family that lives very close, but there is a time when grandparents, aunts and uncles, etc. it does not need to be included in the actual party. A general rule of thumb for the number of party participants is the age of the child plus 1. Although it sounds like a small party, remember that Mom, Dad, and siblings will also be present.

2.) The party theme will help set the tone for everything from cake style, games played to party favors and goodie bags. Pick a theme that is fun for your child, not the most popular of the season. We all know what toys, movies or games kids enjoy and what makes them smile, create a party theme based on their interest or favorite toy.

3.) Party games should be fun for everyone. Remember that competitive games are only fun for those who win. Everyone should have fun at the party and come out with happy thoughts for the day. Tears and resentments can be avoided if games are planned in which the whole group participates as a whole and everyone receives a prize. Remember this is a party.

4.) The most important cake can become part of the party process. A two-tier, full-size cake is the traditional pick for most birthday parties, however, for kids, the small cupcake can be a wonderful option. Cupcakes can easily be made in various flavors with all kinds of frosting flavors so everyone can find a cupcake they like. You can even create a cupcake topper game that is fun for everyone and everyone can be a winner. Have party participants decorate their own cupcakes with prizes for every category imaginable.

5.) Party favors and goody bags are part of the party process that can easily get out of control and over budget. Keep them simple, it is better to be more creative in the selection. Give gifts that reflect the theme of the party. Wrapping up some of the items that go in the goody bag adds extra fun for partygoers. Remember to ask the birthday boy to hand over the goody bags, as this gives you the opportunity to thank each guest personally.

Remember that it is not the size of the party or the number of gifts that is important. The child’s birthday celebration should focus on creating tangible childhood memories of a wonderful day with family and friends in which everyone had fun.