So, you just started dating a guy and you really like him. The problem is, he always takes too long to ask you out, and when he does, he does it in such a casual way that you don’t even know how he really feels about you. You have feminine powers to ask you out more often. Here are the secrets for that:

Stay beautiful.

You don’t need Beyonce’s legs or JLo’s butt to be irresistible. All you need is great skin, hair, and a friendly smile. Guys really don’t like the supermodel type. They understand that these women require a lot of maintenance and it is often impossible to keep up with them. They prefer to opt for a simple girl who knows good style. Impress a guy with wise fashion choices and just the right amount of skin.

Suggest activities of common interest.

If you and your guy love the same activities, why not do it together? For example, they both love mountain hiking. You know of an event coming up and you would like an excuse to see it, so why not ask her to come? Eventually it will learn to do the same for you.

Make it dependent.

Better him than you. Was he recently depressed and were you the angel who gracefully made him feel better? Are you always around when you need to talk to a friend? Life is not perfect. The more challenges he encounters, the more often he will need to see you, if you make him realize that you are the only person who can make him feel good.

Let him know that he is a busy person.

For whatever reason, the more you are available to a guy, the less they ask you out. It’s because, perhaps, they become complacent and know that they can have you anytime they ask. But if you let him know that you have a tight schedule, you will be forced to insist on seeing him more regularly.

Be an attractive conversationalist.

While he may have the gift of speech and enjoy listening to himself all the time, he may not have the same feelings. Talking and not letting him talk is absolutely selfish. On the other hand, if you are so impressed by him that you are dumbfounded every time he talks to you, you may also be projecting a weak personality. If he finds you are a great conversationalist and a good listener, he will ask you out more often.

Just ask him out.

It sounds like a desperate job, but if you really want something for yourself, you should go get it like you mean it. Call him casually and tell him you’d like to see him for coffee. If you get your machine, please do not try again. They will call you if they are interested, and if they are not, find someone else.

Inject humor into your relationship.

So you want him to see you more often, but you don’t have the guts to explain it to him. Simple: say it as a joke. “Where have you been hiding? I’m not going to eat you, you know.” “What’s wrong with me? You will never want to see me” may sound desperate, but if you inject humor into the line, you could easily discover a man’s intentions. If he really likes you, he can say that he is sorry and would really like to see you.