You are dating a guy who you feel is totally devoted to you. However, your past experience with men has not been so good and you want to make sure that this guy, whom you love so much, does not break your heart. Well, he is within his rights to test his commitment and this is how he can do it.

His honesty is unquestionable.

Run a background check on him and ask him about his past relationships and why they didn’t work out. If he opens up to all of them and doesn’t hide anything from you, then he is definitely committed to you. His honesty is proof of his commitment.

He loves being responsible for you.

Ask him to take you on an adventure and watch his reaction to your suggestions. If he tells you it’s dangerous or tries to talk you out of taking unnecessary risks, he’s probably committed to you. He doesn’t want any harm to come your way.

Take your likes and dislikes seriously

He knows your likes and dislikes. However, to test it he modifies your preferences and checks if he remembers them. If he does, then surely he is committed to you.

absolute devotion

Ask one of your best friends to flirt with him in your absence. Make sure your guy doesn’t know this girl. If he comes out with flying colors, you have your answer. A guy who is not mentally committed to you will get carried away.

dignified and upright

You can also put it to the test by being a bit loose after a couple of drinks on the weekend. If he doesn’t take advantage of your vulnerability and instead leaves you home safe and sound, then he’s definitely committed to you.

Test your plans

When talking about general things, ask him about his medium-term plans. If his plans include you and the conversation suddenly turns to “we” “we” instead of “me” and “me,” then you know he has you in mind in his future plans.

ready to wait for you

Tell your guy that you have no intention of settling down anytime soon and watch his reaction. If he shows signs of being hurt but he still respects your decision and offers to wait, you know that he is in the relationship forever. Don’t think about it too much and commit to him without blinking. You’ve found the right guy.