Ok, so a common question I get is how easy is it to tell if your ex is cheating on you? This is a really poignant question to answer, especially if you answer face to face! However, the purpose of this article is to let you know the 3 key signs that your ex might be leading you on.
I must emphasize the word “could” because all relationships are different and all people are different. However, if I were in your position and had seen these 3 signs, I would be highly suspicious that my ex was dirtying me.
it’s awful isn’t it? You go through the horrible emotional breakup, and just when you think your life is going to change forever and you’ll never see your ex the same way, it isn’t. In fact, things basically stay the same. You’re still seeing your ex, or in regular contact, and they’re acting like everything is normal, but it’s not!
Trust me when I say this, this is actually a very common scenario. One of my friends (that’s a friend!) was in exactly this same scenario. She and her ex-boyfriend broke up, but he still acted like they were together.
The worst thing though was that he had posted his relationship status on Facebook, telling the world that I was single, but telling my partner that things were still good and that I still loved her.
Hey? Why go to the trouble of breaking up and telling the world “I’m back on the market” if you still loved someone?
There were possibly many reasons why he did this. One was that he was just using her until something better came along, or two, he was just cheating on her. By the way, they are no longer together!
One of the surest ways your ex is cheating on you is that they are still in close contact with you, even if they are seeing someone else. You see, they may know that they had most of the power in the relationship and they know how much they meant to you. They could be doing this simply to “keep your options open” or worse, to prevent you from moving forward.
You see, humans are selfish beings. We want to have our cake and eat it. Your ex may just want you to keep loving him to boost his own ego, even if he has no intention of getting back together.
Another surefire way to tell if your ex is cheating on you is if he just wants to see you to “get physical” but doesn’t want to talk about getting back together properly. Often many guys can be guilty of doing this. If you only see your ex for brief periods of time that involve intimacy, then something could be up.
If you value yourself and have any kind of self-esteem, you won’t get carried away on a ride like this. Be sure to let them know that you are not just a toy that can be taken out when it suits them.
Also, if it seems like you’re doing most of the running in your ex’s efforts to get back together, and all he does is say things instead of following through on what he says, this could be what you’re being led to.
Sometimes you may have a situation where your ex can say they still love you, but when it comes down to it, they never want to hang out with you and really be with you.
Talk is cheap, and if your ex isn’t backing up what they’re saying, they may just be trying to keep you in line for when they need your ego stroked.
If you want to know exactly how to make your ex fall deeply in love with you again and make them desperate for your attention, listen up.