Many guys struggle with not knowing what to text a girl to make her feel the same excitement and attraction she felt when she first met you.

But what if I told you that there is a technique for texting her that could bring her back to the state she was in when you first met? You know, the state where she was having fun, feeling adventurous, and most importantly, she thought you were really cute. Well, cute enough to give you her number at least.

Well, there’s a text flirt technique that will do exactly that and it’s called…

“Callback Humor”

Callback what? Callback humor. Basically they are text messages that make her remember certain things that happened the night before and thus return her to that emotional state in which she was.

Look when you put this girl in the bar or the club or wherever, she was in a fun and flirty mood. But if you were to text her the next day while she’s at work or doing laundry, chances are she’s not in the same frame of mind. Therefore, she will be much less likely to respond positively to you.

So the idea is that by reminding her of something fun, exciting, or exciting that happened the night before, you force her to access that memory in her brain and thus “retrieve” the emotion associated with it.

Also, the best part is that she will in turn associate that positive emotion with you. It’s like the whole Pavlov dog thing.

So how exactly do you use callback humor?

Well, the crucial first step is to have a good time with her or at least notice the things that make her have a good time.

This is where the solid game comes in. This is where you use PUA techniques like Push Pull or humor to create a positive feeling and build attraction. After all, if you want her to remember a good time, there has to be a good time to remember!

Well, assuming you’ve taken the first step down, the next step is simply to send him a text reminding him of what happened. It is better to use specific examples here.

Don’t just say, “Hi, I’m Joe. We sure had a great time last night!”

That’s too vague and won’t trigger anything. You could still be some random guy who just met last night.

Instead, try to reference a specific event or thing.

For example, you could say something like this,

“Man how crazy was the bar last night? Remember when you went up on stage to dance and almost ran away? LOL”

Assuming she had fun dancing on stage, this text will bring her back to that excited state and probably make her smile at the memory.

Another great way to use callback humor is…

Nicknames. Giving him a nickname is a great way to anchor himself in the feeling he had when you gave him that nickname.

Now whenever you call her by that name, she will automatically be reminded of the circumstances under which she got the name.

It also serves to create a playful dynamic between the two of you.

And on top of that, it will communicate to her that you two are very close and friendly. I mean, who else would have a nickname for you except people who are very close to you?

An example of this would be if she is very athletic and likes to climb rocks and other things, you can give her the nickname Tomb Raider.

Then later you can send him a text saying, “Hey Tomb Raider! What kind of trouble are you causing right now?”

Again, notice the playful tone of the text. Having a nickname for someone almost forces you to play with that person. So if you’re like me and have trouble chilling with a girl at first, giving her a nickname can be a great way to kick things off.